Freudenthal Home Health salutes family caregivers in the St. Joseph, MO area who are giving wonderful care and help to their senior loved ones each and every day. Our goal with this blog is to give information and resources to help and support St. Joseph, MO area family caregivers.
Countless times we’ve heard the stories of families that are thrust into family caregiving situations and don’t know where to begin looking for help or even what questions they should be asking. Sometimes it even can feel like caregiving options are being forced on them or that they have to make decisions “right now” without researching their options.
Choosing care for a loved one is definitely a decision that deserves some thought and research, especially when that means hiring professional caregivers that will be working inside the home. High pressure tactics on the part of a medical facility can make it feel like there is no time to make the decision, but don’t let it stop you from asking these important questions.
Who owns the company?
Is it owned and managed by a family or a corporation?
Are they local and a part of our community?
If I have questions who do I talk to?
Is it the same person every time or is it a call center?
Is this person a healthcare professional?
If I have questions after hours or on the weekend, is there someone I can call?
Is the company certified by Medicare and Medicaid?
Are it’s caregivers bonded and insured through the agency?
What are their privacy practices?
What process do they use to hire and assess your caregivers?
What does the pre-employment screening look like?
Do they have additional screenings each year?
How do they evaluate your caregivers?
How often do they evaluate your caregivers?
What training do they provide to the caregivers?
How do they respond to emergencies?
What specific services do they provide?
Do they provide in-home care as well as home health & hospice care?
Will my loved one have the same caregiver every time?
What happens if the caregiver doesn’t show up on time or at all?
What if my loved one doesn’t approve of the caregiver or wants a new one?
How likely is it that Medicare Part A will cover my parent’s home health care?
What insurance plans do they accept?
Do they submit claims to the insurance agency or am I expected to do so?
What expenses, if any, are excluded?
These certainly do not cover all the questions you may have that are specific to your family caregiving situation, but they give you a place to start. Having a good place to begin your search is always important and if we can help you in any way, don’t hesitate to give Freudenthal a call and let us answer these questions for you.
NO? Well, let us introduce you to the Didiley Squats!
This beautiful group not only comes to exercise with Kelly Jarrett, PTA, they have also formed a group that meets bi-weekly to exercise even more! Doing this together gives them the kick they need to stay healthy. What an inspiration!
Low self-esteem can be deeply rooted, with origins in traumatic experiences. In later life, self-esteem can be undermined by ill health, negative life events, and a general sense of lack of control. Seniors with dementia or declining mental health can often begin to neglect their personal care and hygiene. They may start to wear the same clothes repeatedly or forget to bath and wash. Personal care is an important aspect not only of maintaining good health and hygiene, but also improving self-esteem. Good personal care can also improve the mental disposition of anyone receiving care.
Colby Murphy, Freudenthal preceptor and trainer, makes sure every caregiver he trains knows the phrase “look good, feel good!” Psychology Today agrees with Mr. Murphy, listing wearing clean clothes as #4 on their top 10 list of ways to boost self esteem.
If you or a loved one can no longer manage to make it up and down the stairs to the laundry room, don’t hesitate to call Freudenthal at 816-676-8050 and talk to us about starting personal care services. Not only do we want you to receive first-class care, we also want you to feel better about yourself. We truly care for each and every one of our clients.
It’s no secret that there are benefits to exercise, but maybe the biggest one is the friendships that are formed. Every week Kelly Jarrett, PTA goes across St. Joseph providing free exercise classes for free as a part of our efforts to give back to the community and to help promote healthier living. We’ve found that the exercise classes are starting to have a side effect though … they are generating friendships and blessings! We here at Freudenthal are blessed every day to get to know the people we go out to serve, and it’s no different with our exercise classes. We are proud to call each and every one of you members of the Freudenthal Family!
Paper Plate Valentine Heart Wreath
Paper (card stock or construction)
Cut various sizes of hearts out of your card stock or construction paper.
Cut out the inner part of the paper plate leaving the outer rim intact. You will be using the outer rim for this heart wreath craft.
Begin randomly gluing hearts onto the paper plate until you feel like you have enough hearts on your heart wreath.
Add a ribbon to the back of the plate to hang the wreath.
Making the decision to move a care dependent parent into your home is never an easy decision. Each situation is different and deserves to be thoroughly analyzed before you jump in feet first. Here are some questions that need to be addressed as you’re going through the decision process.
How will I talk to my parent about moving?
How does my spouse and children feel about moving them into our home, and how will it change our lives together?
What things will be easy for us to negotiate in living together, and what things will be hard?
What are the limits of my ability to care for my parent at home, and what if I have to put them in a nursing home?
How will my siblings feel, and how much help will they give me in caring for our parent?
Will their friends come to visit them at my house, or will they be dependent on me for all her socializing?
What are my needs for privacy and alone time?
Adapting Your Home
Where will my parent sleep—in my daughter's room, convert the den, build an addition?
What assistive devices do I need—grab bars in the bathroom, raised toilet seat, ramps, etc.?
Does my parent smoke or drink, and will that be a problem for me?
Does my parent have a pet that will be coming with them, and how will I cope with caring for it?
What will the financial arrangement be? Should I charge rent? Will I have expenses for them to cover?
How will my siblings feel about the financial arrangement?
Will my work situation have to change, and if so, how will I cover the bills?
Will my parent need care during the day, and if so, how will it be provided?
How will I juggle my job, childcare responsibilities, marriage, and taking care of my parent?
When will I be able to make the phone calls needed to make arrangements for my parent?
When will I have time for myself?
How comfortable am I with helping my parent bathe or changing an adult's diaper?
Do I know what to expect over time as my parent’s condition changes?
How is my health, and will I be able to take care of myself as well as my parent?
Am I willing to accept respite care to get a break?
If you are facing these questions, a family consultation with a Freudenthal Social Worker can help you sort out the pros and cons of such a move and provide information and resources to make things easier for you and your family. Call us at 816-676-8050 today!
“The care you give to yourself is the care you give to your loved one…”
The easiest thing for someone to say and the hardest thing to accept is the advice to take care of yourself as a Family Caregiver. It can be hard to see beyond the care tasks that await you each morning.
Study after study shows that caregiving compromises health. About 60% of caregivers show signs of clinical depression, and they take more prescription medications, including those for anxiety and depression, than non-caregivers in their age group. 75% of caregivers in America are women, some taking care of spouses/partners, some adult children taking care of parents, some parents taking care of adult children. Let’s look at what taking care of yourself means, why is it so hard to do, and how to do it.
Support and coping comes in many forms—prayer, talking to family, friends or professionals, taking walks, reading a book, eating hot fudge sundaes, and most of all saying “yes” to offers of help. Sadly most caregivers end up withdrawing from friends and family and feeling isolated and as if no one understands. Support groups can be an important source of understanding and connection.
“Guilt is cancer. Guilt will confine you, torture you. It's a black wall. It's a thief.”
As there is no “perfect parent,” there is no such thing as a “perfect” caregiver. And you are not selfish to sometimes think about yourself and your needs and feelings. Although we will feel guilty when we get angry or frustrated, these feelings are OK and a way to know how well you are coping.
Learn to ask for help. The often-heard question, “Is there anything you need?” has but one answer: Yes. “Yes, I need a meal, I need someone to stay here so I can go out, I need some time by myself, I need flowers, I need help in the garden, I need some groceries.” Learn to say “no” to requests that are draining rather than nurturing, such as hosting holiday meals. You can still make choices about your life and what is right for you and you do still have some control.
Not getting enough sleep is a major cause of illness and stress in caregivers. Exhaustion is one of the main complaints, leading to irritability and then inappropriate anger which then leads to more guilt. Know the limits of your own endurance and strength. Make sure you have regular check ups and that those “little concerns” about your health are looked into. Exercise is even more important as it gives you a break, combats depression, and helps you maintain health. Family caregivers often worry about what will happen to their loved one if something happens to them. Worrying doesn’t help — taking better care of your health does.
Learn as much as you can about the illness so that you can understand what is happening. Attend a workshop or support group, not just for emotional support but also to learn caregiving tricks to make caregiving easier. Contact someone, like a Freudenthal Social Worker, who can help you connect with community resources and use them.
Emotional Health and Respite
It is easy to become overwhelmed, thus the need for breaks. Without breaks, you begin to question yourself, feel inadequate, and experience burn out. Family Caregivers need time away and scheduling respite care can be exactly what “the doctor ordered.” Having a family member or even calling Freudenthal to schedule care so you can get a break from time to time is important for you health.
Another stressor of caregiving is seeing no end to the situation. Having a life and connections outside of caregiving helps you to maintain perspective, so that caregiving doesn't become oneʼs only reality. Sometimes, your best and only defense is a sense of humor. Find people or situations to laugh at daily. It refreshes the soul and renews your spirit.
…disease does not need to define anyone, a person does not need to give the disease that power. Instead, a person with a chronic disease may need to define his or her life in a way that is different than it was prior to the onset of the disease.Read More
May 2019 be a blessed and happy year for you and your family!
Every year we make resolutions to improve our lives during the coming year, and more often than not our galant efforts fall to the side as we manage our daily journey. Life has a way of derailing the best laid plans. This year we propose that you don’t shoot for the stars, but plan for your journey!
Drastic changes to our daily habits and routines are hard to manage and often unsustainable, but small changes made over time that augment our life can make a positive impact in our over all well being. We’ve scoured the health journals and came up with 5 well rounded resolutions that are easy and can truly make a difference in your life.
Look For The Laughs
Laughing everyday not only acts as a stress reliever, it also stimulates your entire brain! Laughing also releases antibodies that help to build up your immune system. So whether you start reading the comics in the newspaper or buy a joke book, make sure to build more laughter into your day. Remember, laughter is also contagious so, not only are you helping your health, you’re also improving the health of those around you!
Find brain teasers and puzzles you enjoy solving. From word searches to crosswords, or even more complicated things like sudoku, puzzles help you to build your brain power and improve your memory. According to research studies, regularly engaging your mind may help lower your risk for the dementia associated with Alzheimer's disease. If you have a smartphone there are several free puzzle apps. You can also find free puzzles like these!
Regular stretching not only keeps you limber, it also helps prevent injury. If you are struggling with Parkinson’s make sure all your stretches are big and over exaggerated to help your body recalibrate and help you manage your symptoms. Look for natural opportunities in your daily routine to stretch, like making it a part of your routine of standing up and sitting down. Every time you stand up, stretch out your arms and do a little march in place to get the circulation going. Even putting in a side to side stretch can help you with your balance. Dr. Robert Knowles gave us some great daily exercises in a recent blog post —> click here!
You don’t have to substitute every snack, but try to substitute one or two a day with a healthy option. If you’re more the grazing type; try to keep nuts, like almonds, around so you can eat a few here and there throughout the day. Substituting carrots for a cookie not only brings down the calorie count but increases your fiber intake. That’s a nutrition double play!
Take The Stairs
If you have the option to do a little more exercise, take it. If you can climb the stairs instead of taking the elevator, go for it. If that’s not possible, try parking one more spot away from your destination in the parking lot. As you build up strength, move another space away. The more you exercise the better, but do it in increments and with care.
Start your year off with these five easy resolutions and you may be surprised how healthy you are when next year rolls around!
Wishing you and your family a very Blessed and Merry Christmas!
The days are getting shorter and the winds are getting colder, it’s a sure sign that winter is saying hello. For some, this time of year is a time of happiness and celebration, but for many seniors winter can be one of the most depressing seasons. Winter depression is still a mystery to scientists who study it. Many things, including brain chemicals, ions in the air, and genetics seem to be involved. However, they all agree that one major contributor to this seasonal depression is the lack of light, which leads us to number one on our list!
light shine in!
Open those blinds and turn on those lights. Get as much light as you can. You might even consider looking into lights that simulate the brightness and glow of natural light. It seems simple enough: In higher latitudes, winter days are shorter, so you get less exposure to sunlight. Replace lost sunlight with bright artificial light, and your mood improves.
Alfred Lewy, MD, a seasonal affective disorder researcher at the Oregon Health & Science University, says it's not only a matter of getting light, but also getting it at the right time. "The most important time to get light is in the morning," he says. There are alarm clocks that actually simulate the rising of the sun and gradually fill your room with light to help you wake up in a more natural way and start your day off right.
Listen To The Music
A 2013 study in the Journal of Positive Psychology found that people who listened to upbeat music could improve their moods and boost their happiness in just two weeks.
In the study, participants were instructed to try to improve their mood, but they only succeeded when they listened to the upbeat music. Plus, a happier mood brings benefits beyond feeling good. Lead study author, Yuna Ferguson, noted that happiness has been linked to better physical health, higher income, and greater relationship satisfaction.
Spend Quality Time
People who spend time with family and friends helps to relieve stress. A study conducted by Carnegie Mellon University found that people use their family and friends as a stress buffer, talking about their problems instead of seeking negative coping mechanisms. The emotional support provided by social ties enhances your psychological well-being. One study found that people who view their friends and families as supportive reported a greater sense of meaning in life and felt like they had a stronger sense of purpose.
Make New Plans
Nothing gets your mind off of your problems like having something to look forward to. Plan something to do, whether it’s a vacation or going to local events. Consider buying tickets to a concert, plan a night out, or head to a movie. The key here is to find something that you’re really excited about doing and savor not only the experience, but the anticipation of doing it.
Cuddle With A Pet
Studies have shown that pets can be both fun and calming. These furry friends can be the perfect companion in a moment of depression and sadness. When you’re feeling down, spend some extra time petting your cat or playing catch with your dog. You’ll both be happier!
Call Out For Help
If nothing seems to help, don’t hesitate to call out for help. Call your family, friends, doctor, or Freudenthal. We are here to help you find the care you need, no matter what! We want to help you live a full life at home surrounded by compassionate care.
Freudenthal Hospice is the realization of a goal to provide a complete continuum of care at home. We’ve brought together the best team of hospice professionals who care deeply about their patients and families.
Happy Thanksgiving from your Freudenthal Family!
May your day be filled with love and blessings!
With Christmas upon us, here’s a meaningful gift that won’t break the bank and can help jog the memory of your loved ones. The best part is that you don’t have to be a super crafty person to make this wonderfully practical gift!
Here’s what you’ll need to create some cute and personalized photo coasters:
(ideally a tile with a rough surface)
small paint brush
clear top coat spray
newspaper or magazines
Step 1: Prepare your pictures
Find clear pictures that distinctly show the faces of individual family members. Use a free app like “Phonto” to add your names to the photos. You can print your photos at home on computer paper. You may want to use a photo paper or laser printer if you’d like to ensure the best quality for your photos. Cut the photos to the same size as your tiles. They don’t have to fit perfectly on the tile, since the Mod Podge will ensure the photo adheres well to the edges of the tile.
Step 2: Glue photos to the tile
Pour a quarter-size amount of Mod Podge on your tile and use the paint brush to spread it across the top of the tile. A thin coat should be fine because a little bit goes a long way. Then, Place the picture of top of the tile and pressed it down so it adheres well. Make sure you smooth out any bubbles and then let dry.
Step 3: Seal the photo
After the glue was dry, pour another quarter size amount of Mod Podge on the top of the picture and spread it across the surface. Spread it all the way to the very edge of the tile to make sure the edge of the photo adheres well to the tile. Use enough that the surface of the tile looks white and the photo is no longer visible (It dries clear, so don’t worry!). Let it dry completely until it is dry to the touch.
Cover the photo with a second layer of Mod Podge to make sure it’s good and thick.
Step 4: Add felt to bottom of the tile
Cut out felt squares to be slightly smaller than the size of the tile so that it won’t be visible when the coasters are turned over and being used.
Spray the adhesive onto the back of the tiles (if possible do this outside to ensure proper ventilation) and then place the piece of felt right on top. Press it down to make sure it adheres well. Lay the tile down with felt up in the air and let the adhesive dry about an hour or so before continuing. Otherwise, you might have sticky fingers!
Step 5: Add a protective layer
Spray a thin and even layer of the topcoat over the top and edges of the tiles. Let this dry for an hour or so. Spray a second coat on the tiles to make sure they are well protected. Let everything dry well overnight.
Once they are completely dry, you are ready to use them or give them away! Stack them on top of each other and then tie them up with some burlap twine.
We proudly salute the men and women who have fought and continue to fight for our freedom. Happy Veterans Day from your Freudenthal Family!
In this wonderful interview, Maureen Raffensperger, PT, DPT and Stephanie Hughes, PTA explain what LSVT Big is and how it helps give hope to those living with Parkinson’s Disease.
Unfortunately, the impact of falls among older adults can be significant. In addition to the likelihood of a slower healing process along with the chance that complete healing may not occur, fall-related injuries can quickly become a vicious cycle. When seniors fall, they often develop a fear of falling which can lead them to become sedentary. The more sedentary they become, the weaker their bones and muscles become. This, in turn, increases the likelihood of future falls and injuries, and may ultimately impede their ability to live independently.
To combat this we’ve asked Dr. Robert Knowles, DPT what older adults can do to keep from falling. Dr. Knowles has been a key member of the Freudenthal Physical Therapy Team for 3 years and has helped many seniors along their road to recovery and helped them prevent future falls. Here are his top 5 exercises that can help improve balance and stability and help prevent falls from happening.
1) Standing March
Begin in a standing upright position with your feet shoulder width apart and hands resting on your hips.
Lift one leg with your knee bent, then lower it back to the ground and repeat with your other leg. Continue this movement, alternating between each leg.
2 times a day
1 set of 10 reps
2) Standing Hip Abduction
Begin in a standing upright position holding onto a chair at your side for support.
Lift your leg out to your side, then return to the starting position and repeat.
2 times a day
1 set of 10 reps
3) Standing Hamstring Curl with Chair Support
Begin standing with your hands resting on a stable surface.
Pick up one foot and bend your knee as far as you can. Then, lower your leg back to the floor and repeat.
2 times a day
1 set of 10 reps
4) Lunge with Counter Support
Begin in a standing upright position with your hand resting on a counter at your side.
Step forward and bend your knees to lower your body into a lunge position. Press into your feet and straighten your legs to stand up and repeat.
2 times a day
1 set of 10 reps
5) Heel - Toe Raises with Counter Support
Begin in a standing upright position with one hand resting on a counter in front of you.
Rise up onto your toes, hold briefly, then lower back down and lift the balls of your feet off the ground. Repeat.
2 times a day
1 set of 10 reps
As each of us get older, becoming frail is the last thing any of us think about. Many times I’ve heard people comment how cute they find an elderly man or woman that is frail. “They’re just like a porcelain doll.” I guarantee that none of us will think it’s cute if we become frail ourselves.
What is frailty and why should we care about it?
Frailty is a decline in strength or energy that actually puts older adults at risk for illness and injury. It’s impacted by things like proper nutrition and getting enough exercise that helps to build and maintain muscle. We have to care about this because frailty is an extreme loss of strength and energy. It puts our loved ones and ourselves at greater risk for developing illness and being injured. Frailty is one of the leading causes of falls in the home of those over the age of 65. It also depletes the immune system so that we have a harder time of fighting off illness. The good news is that it can be screened for by a physician.
Recognize The Signs of Frailty
Decreased Grip Strength
Sudden or unintentional weight loss
Get in the fight and kick frailty to the curb!
Now that you know what frailty is - it’s time to start fighting against it. Combating frailty revolves mainly around diet and exercise. Make sure you’re eating a balanced and healthy diet that helps to boost your immune system. Making sure that you’re adding leafy green vegetables like kale and peas in your diet. These have the highest amounts of protein and help to rebuild muscle. Along with protein make sure sources of calcium and vitamin D are included in your diet to help with bone strength and muscle health.
You may also need to speak with your doctors and see if any of your medications may be affecting your appetite. You will also want to maintain good dental health, not only because it helps your heart, but also so you can chew comfortably.
Along with all the changes in diet, we need to make sure we’re staying active. There are a lot of great activities that can help us remain physical. Freudenthal is proud to be able to help with this by providing exercise classes all across the area lead by Kelly Jarrett, PTA. There are also exercises like walking and Tai Chi that are very popular in our area.